Now is the time of year for resolutions. I don't have any. Not that I don't have room for improvement - no one is more keenly aware of my many faults and shortcomings than I. But so many New Year's Resolutions don't get kept. For instance, I know the gym will be very crowded for the next two weeks or so. But then the crowds will start to thin out, and it will be back to normal by February.
Beyond fixing faults, though, I'd like to have resolutions to make my life extraordinary. I find that most of my family and friends are, in some sense, extraordinary. Ryan and Beth make movies and are two of the funniest, kindest people I've ever met; Beth is even becoming a nurse to help heal the sick. Chris is brilliant, as proven by the cards he makes every year for Christmas (just the tip of the iceberg, believe me). Jane volunteers for everything under the sun. Nessa is getting her masters in a field where she can make a difference in matters that are important to her. Heidi is becoming a great pastry chef at CIA. Chris P. made a beautiful, brilliant woman his bride, and is teaching english halfway around the world. Jesse is making a great deal of money down in Florida, has a family started, and bought land back home in Vermont that he already has plans to develop. Matt Boulanger moved with his lovely new wife to a new town, in a new state, and found multiple jobs that he is eminently qualified for, and is also starting to write poetry again. Steph runs marathons and triathlons; rows crew; makes cookies, cakes, and incredible meals for people at the drop of a hat; and is a dedicated, talented officer besides. My parents just cut ties to the place they've called home for more than 20 years and are living where they want, working the jobs they enjoy, and quickly moving towards well-earned retirement. And these are only a few examples of what people I know have done, extraordinary things.
I'd like to be extraordinary too. Or at least fix some of my more glaring shortcomings. Got suggestions? Please post anonymous comments, which I will possibly disregard so I can catch up on taped prime-time television. Happy New Year!